Every decision you make builds or breaks self-trust. This article explores how unrealistic expectations, negative self-talk, and all-or-nothing thinking erode confidence — and how shifting focus to process, making small promises, and practising kinder self-talk creates relief, freedom, and the steady confidence to trust yourself again.
Never Too Old to Lift: Building Strength and Confidence at Any Age
A Plan Is Not A Prison (Or At Least It Shouldn't Be!)
Lean but Luscious: Cooking Lean Meats Without Losing Flavour or Tenderness
Strength After 40: How to Build It, Keep It, and Avoid Injuries Doing It
Motivation Is a Spark, Not the Engine (And Here’s What Really Drives Progress)
Muscle: The Most Overlooked Investment in Your Future Health
Discipline Isn’t What You Think It Is
Essential Cookware That’s Worth the Money (and What’s Not)
What Counts as 'Hard Work'? (Hint: It’s Not Just Sweating and Suffering)
How To Talk To Yourself When You Mess Up
Minimum Effective Dose: The Busy Person's Guide to Getting Fitter Without Burning Out
Better Beats Perfect — Every Damn Time
Salt Is a Skill: Why Most Home Cooks Get It Wrong (and How to Fix It)
Yes, You Need to Push Yourself In The Gym — But Here’s How to Know When and How Much
Stop Trying to Be ‘Good.’ Start Aiming for Well.
Consistency Over Chaos: What Actually Builds Fitness That Lasts
High Performer, Harsh Critic: When Success in One Area Feeds Self-Doubt in Another
The Only Knives You Really Need in Your Kitchen
I started with the full culinary school knife roll — seven blades, and over the years that grew to twelve, most of which I barely touch now. After 26 years of home cooking, here’s the no-nonsense guide to the only knives most people actually need, what features matter (and don’t), plus tips for maintenance and sharpening that’ll keep them working for decades.
















