Starting Over

You Are Not Broken (Even If It Feels Like It Right Now)

You Are Not Broken (Even If It Feels Like It Right Now)

Struggling to stay consistent with health or fitness? You’re not broken, you’re stuck in patterns that don’t hold up under real life. This practical post explains why extreme approaches fail and how structure, not willpower, supports sustainable change.

Eating for Consistency, Not Perfection

In January, it is easy to tighten rules, skip meals, and overcorrect after normal life meals. This article brings things back to centre with a simpler approach: steady meal rhythm, protein and veg as anchors, and fewer emotional reactions to food. Sustainable eating is often unremarkable, and that is the point.

You’re Not Falling Behind. You’re Right Where This Gets Real.

Mid-January is where progress often starts to feel slower and quieter, and where most people start doubting themselves. This article reframes that phase as the part that matters most, showing why consistency beats motivation, why habits form in the middle, and how to keep showing up without needing perfection.

Eat Like You Train, Not Like You’re Dieting

Eat Like You Train, Not Like You’re Dieting

A calmer way to eat in January, without swinging between restriction and chaos. Learn how training-minded eating builds consistency through regular meals, protein as an anchor, and simple, repeatable choices that support recovery, performance, and real life.

Why This Time Can Be Different (If You Let It Be)

Why This Time Can Be Different (If You Let It Be)

January fails for most people because they repeat the same urgent, all-or-nothing approach. This piece reframes why past Januarys broke down, how self-trust gets damaged, and what changes when you swap hype for calm, durable discipline you can actually sustain.

The First Thing to Fix After the Holidays (It’s Not Calories)

The First Thing to Fix After the Holidays (It’s Not Calories)

Early January isn’t the time to clamp down on calories. It’s the time to rebuild structure: regular meals, protein and fibre as anchors, and less grazing. This approach calms the noise, restores rhythm, and sets you up for sustainable fat loss without another crash diet.

Training for the Long Game Starts Right Here

Training for the Long Game Starts Right Here

January does not need to hurt to work. Learn how to start training in a way you can actually sustain, build confidence in the first few weeks, avoid burnout and injury, and create a steady plan you can still be doing next January.

You Don’t Need a Reset, You Need Direction

You Don’t Need a Reset, You Need Direction

Reset culture is seductive, but it’s brittle. If you want real change this January, focus on direction, not perfection. Learn how to build consistency that survives weekends, holidays, and low motivation, using permission, resilience, and a simple plan you can repeat.

You Don’t Need to Be “On Track” This Week

You Don’t Need to Be “On Track” This Week

You do not need to be “on track” this week to be making progress. Learn how to loosen structure during holidays, travel, illness, or overwhelm without guilt, all-or-nothing spirals, or punishment, and how to return to your routine calmly when life settles.

The Mask Men Wear: Why Hiding Struggles Makes Us Weaker

The Mask Men Wear: Why Hiding Struggles Makes Us Weaker

Many men still believe strength means silence, but hiding pain doesn’t make us tougher, it makes us weaker. This Mindset Monday explores why vulnerability is real strength, how misunderstanding Stoicism feeds isolation, and what it takes to drop the mask and start living authentically.

Starting All Over Again - My Fitness Journey

Starting All Over Again - My Fitness Journey

Coming from a guy whose business is training others and coaching them on their nutrition and lifestyle habits, what I'm about to tell you may be a bit of a shock. I am unhealthy and out of shape, and it's exactly because I haven't been eating right or exercising enough in the last year or so. I have not been "walking the talk" as the saying goes.

Today, I bought some new pants, and in my mind, all hell broke loose.

I put on a pair of 34" waist cargo pants - barely - and thought, "WTF has happened to me?" I mean, I had to full-on suck in my gut and worry the button was going to break off squeeze those suckers on.

Great job Raina! Abbotsford Triathlon 2015

Great job Raina!  Abbotsford Triathlon 2015

Great job by Raina on her return to sprint triathlon competition. For those of you who didn't know, Raina was out of commission and barely able to walk back in late January of this year with a herniated disc, and wasn't sure that she'd ever be able to run again at all, never mind get back to her favourite event, sprint triathlons.

Through great work by physio Chris Zwicker at CBI Sport & Spine Railway, and Raina's determination to get better, she came back to run a 5K at the Run for Water in May, and compete in today's Abbotsford Triathlon.

Raina was the 4th woman out of the water (swim time 15:07), 8th coming off the bike (bike time 46:39), and 12th at the finish (run time 31:54) with an overall time of 1:33:40. She was 4th in her age group.

Awesome performance, particularly considering where she was just seven months ago, barely able to walk to the end of our driveway and back - we're super proud of her!

UPDATE 2020-07-24: Copied this over from the old blog for posterity. My super-wifey continues to be super awesome five years down the road. ;)